Disclaimer: This entry is pretty long…I’m sorry!! I promise I will become better at updating this thing more often.
The title of my blog is Korean for Beautiful Chaos. I chose that name before I came here to Korea because my life was exactly that, a beautiful chaos. I had just graduated from college with no clue as to what I wanted to do with my life. I chose this job in Korea because I didn’t particularly want to stay in the States and I figured it would be an amazing experience. I can now safely say it is the best decision I have ever made. While I miss and love everyone back home so much, it is so great being out here. I have been given the chance of a lifetime. Not many people can pack up their things a leave on a whim. Also, not many people get the chance to set out and find who they really are. Life back in North Carolina was great. I have so many great friends who will always be there for me. I have the most amazing family ever who would do anything for me. However, being in NC meant that things were the same as they always were. I was living the life I had lived for 22 years. It was time for me to leave home and find a life of my own. Coming here was one of the scariest things I have ever done. I didn’t know if I would be able to adjust to life on my own in a different country. I am well surprised at how well I have adjusted. I have definitely had my bad days but they have nothing on the good days I have had here. I have met some pretty amazing people and I hope they are in my life for years to come! Even though I have only been here for 2 months, I have learned so much about life. I have learned that it’s okay not to have a plan. I still have no idea what I want to do with my life but I am perfectly fine with that. I have stopped planning life and have started living it because life never goes as planned. With all of this said, I hope that my family and friends will understand if I don’t come home for a while. It’s not that I don’t want to see you, believe me I miss you more that you will ever know, it’s just I have realized that I need to live life for me and not for others and what they want. I don’t know what will happen in the months or years to come but just know that no matter what happens I will always be able to come home and visit!
Ok, now that I have gotten that out of the way I will update everyone about what has been going on here in Korea. It’s been a while since I updated so I will try my best to fill you in with everything. I believe the last thing I left off with was telling everyone that some spear fishing was going to happen. Well, Garry and Miranda came to my house for the weekend that weekend. We went to the beach and then came back to Imgye and hung out. The next day we headed to the little river outside of my apartment to try out spear fishing. As expected it was pretty unsuccessful. It was still a lot of fun and very entertaining!! Miranda caught a leaf on her spear and that was about all that was caught that day.
The first weekend of October was Chuseok which is the Korean Thanksgiving. I got off of work at 12:30 that Thursday and headed to Incheon to see Miranda and Garry. The bus terminal that day was crazy hectic! There were so many people and the tickets for the buses to Incheon were sold out but luckily there was a later bus I could catch. I arrived and Miranda and I went and got some Korean BBQ…I love me some Korean BBQ!! We then met up with Garry and then the three of us went to the Star Wars bar…it was hilarious. You would just have to understand Miranda and I to get why we think it’s so funny. We met up with a group of people later on and all just hung out. Friday, Miranda and I went shopping and we both bought some new shoes and clothes! Friday evening, Garry and I went to dinner and then we went to Donghae which is in Seoul. We met this couple who is in the US Army and are stationed here. We hung out with them for the rest of the night. It was a lot of fun…they are really awesome people!! The next day, the four of us tried to find Everland. It’s a zoo/amusement park. We definitely never made it so we just went to dinner and hung out. I started to feel really sick and had a really bad fever so Garry and I left and called it a night. On Sunday, I was really sick so I went to the hospital and found out I had tonsillitis. So I slept most of the day on Sunday. Monday, it was time for me to head back to Imgye. My classes were cancelled for that week so it gave me time to recover.
I was starting to feel better and so the next weekend I headed back to Incheon for the Dream Concert. It was so much fun!! Miranda, Andre, and I sat in the World Cup Stadium for 9 hours just to see Big Bang perform. There were 14 other bands but we mainly wanted to see Big Bang. They were awesome! Miranda and I were acting like little middle school girls but that’s okay because we were the only ones there who weren’t actually middle school students so we fit in pretty well ;).
This past weekend Garry headed my way and we went down the Donghae/Mangsang Beach for the weekend. It was probably the best weekend I have had here so far! We arrived at Mangsang Beach Camping Resort on Friday evening. It was about 10:30 so that meant we would be setting up our tent in the dark. Yeah, everything was going well until we had to deal with the rain flap thing. It was huge! We couldn’t figure out why it was so big and engulfing the entire tent. We gave up and just tied it the pegs and stuck them in the ground. Oh and the spot for the tent was a wooden platform so the only thing that was holding down the tent was the rain flap! We went and got some dinner then headed to bed. Sometime in the middle of the night the wind picked up and I thought we were going to fly away. It was crazy! The pegs came up out of the ground and the rain flap was flying all over the place. Garry got up and saved it and tied it to the platform. It worked pretty well from then on out.
Saturday, we ventured off into Donghae and went to this cave. It was so cool!! They gave us hardhats to wear because the top of the cave was so low. I didn’t have a problem because I’m so short but Garry kept hitting his head! After the cave we headed to the mountains. We went on this hike that was absolutely beautiful! We ended up at some waterfalls and it was really peaceful. Once we made it back to the bottom of the mountain we headed back to the campsite and got dinner. We went to this restaurant on the strip. We thought it was Korean BBQ but it turned out to be some seafood soup bbq thing. I don’t even know how to explain it! Anyway, we ordered some kind of fish and the waiter walked over to the fish tank next to us, with a bucket, and grabbed a fish out. He killed it, threw it in a bowl of soup, and placed it on a grill thing on our table. I was a little nervous about eating it but it turned out to be really good!!! Once dinner was over, we went and found a swing that was on the beach. We sat there and watched some fireworks that other people were shooting off. It was a really cute spot! We then just hung out for the rest of the night.
Sunday, we went out onto the beach for most of the day. It was a super nice day! The weather was great and we were basically the only ones on the beach. It was really relaxing to just lay there and talk. It was time for us to go and take down our tent and head home. I didn’t want to leave at all!! It was such a great weekend and I wish it could have lasted longer!
This weekend I am heading to Seoul with Lindsey and I finally get to see Angelina again! All of my closest friends will be there, Miranda, Garry, Angelina, and Lindsey, so I’m super excited about this weekend!!!
I was listening to the radio today at work and this song came on. I think it’s so great! It really makes me miss my Mom! It's definitely worth a listen!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g1lTWXa0oyAI will try and update this more often so it won’t be just random long entries all of the time! If you made it this far, thank you so much for reading!!
xoxo,
Whitney